Bear Guide to Sydney, NSW, AUS
There are a lot of things that you can do and see while you are visiting Sydney, New South Wales.
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Organisations
The Harbour City Bears
The Harbour City Bears (HCB) are the largest NSW (and largest Southern Hemisphere) bear social community group for hairy, gay men, their friends and their admirers. They meet every Friday at Oxford Hotel (134 Oxford St, Darlinghurst NSW 2010) from 7:00pm to 11:00pm, and every Sunday at the Townie (326 King St, Newtown NSW 2042) from 4:00pm to 8:00pm. The HCB organises various events, like Bear Pit (quarterly dance party), Bear Bowls (lawn bowls), Woof in the Woods (cabin trip), Press Paws Table Tops (board games), and other events.
The HCB have two major events includes: Bear Essentials festival to coincide with Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras (and participate in the parade) in February/March every year, and Bear Pride Week that hosts a series of fun events during late August every year (and it also includes hosting the Mr Harbour City Bears competition).
Website: Home Page + Bear Essentials
Facebook: Harbour City Bears Main Page + Harbour City Bears Social Group
Newcastle Bears
There is a bear community social group in Newcastle (2 hours north of Sydney).
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/152770403010
Affiliate Groups
Sydney Leather Men (SLM) Inc.
Membership is open to those who identify as a Leather Man in accordance with our inclusion policy. We recognise the fluidity of gender identity, and welcome membership from cis male, trans male, and masculine non-binary / queer individuals that are attracted to similar gender expressions and who align with the spirit of being a Leather Man. Currently, the President of the SLM is Philip Reilly.
Website: https://sydneyleathermen.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sydneyleathermen
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sydneyleathermen/
Blue Sky: https://bsky.app/profile/sydneyleathermen.bsky.social
Contact: contact@sydneyleathermen.com
Leather Men Travel: https://leathermentravel.com/home/australia/sydney/
Bars/Pubs
The Oxford
The Oxford Hotel is a queer and bear friendly venue, that offers four distinct spaces, Polo Lounge, Ginger’s, Oxford Bar (with bistro and large terrace), and Oxford Underground. You will see the Harbour City Bears organise events here, like Furry Fridays (every Friday at 7pm), Mardi Gras and Bear Pride Week. You can also book a special event in one of the spaces for any special event, just ask the friendly staff or any HCB committee member.
Located: 134 Oxford St, Darlinghurst NSW 2010
Website: https://theoxfordhotel.com.au/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/oxfordhotelsydney/
The Townie
The Town Hall Hotel Newtown, is nicknamed “The Townie”, and it is a stylish and vibrant venue that blends historic charm with modern comfort. Located in a beautifully restored building, it combines contemporary design elements and traditional architecture. The hotel offers a range of accommodations, from cosy rooms to more spacious suites, all equipped with modern amenities. You will see the Harbour City Bears organise events here, like Social Sundays (every Sunday at 4pm), Mardi Gras and Bear Pride Week.
Located: 326 King St, Newtown NSW 2042
Website: https://townhallhotelnewtown.com/menu
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetownie/
Travel Agency:
Planetdwellers
Planetdwellers are a proudly gay-owned and operated Australian travel agency and they won the NTIA 2024 Most Outstanding Leisure Travel Agency. PlanetDwellers specialises in providing unique travel experiences that cater to adventurous travellers looking to explore both local and international destinations. The agency focuses on creating memorable journeys with a theme of exploration and discovery, encouraging clients to immerse themselves in different cultures and environments. They offer a wide range of services, including personalised travel planning, guided tours, and unique packages that highlight off-the-beaten-path locations. Their knowledgeable staff is passionate about travel and provides expert advice to help clients choose the best destinations based on their interests, whether it be nature, adventure, or cultural experiences. Additionally, PlanetDwellers is committed to sustainability and responsible tourism, promoting eco-friendly travel options and supporting local communities in the areas they operate. With a focus on creating lasting memories, the agency aims to inspire travellers to venture beyond the ordinary and explore the wonders of the world.
Website: https://www.planetdwellers.com.au/about
Email: info@planetdwellers.com.au
Located: Shop 1, 113-115 Oxford Street, Darlinghurst, NSW 2011
Phone: +61 2 9357 2900
Points of Difference Travel and Events
The travel company’s purpose is to help our guests and clients wake up somewhere amazing. They do this by the development, creation and sourcing of the best products, suppliers and venues to work with. We add a fabulous gay layer to their standards. They have a focus on the LGBT+ and luxury markets; if it’s good enough for the gay’s it’s good enough for all of their clients. Their guests experience is a safe, welcoming and fun environment for like-minded people, both locally and internationally, where strangers become friends. They create happiness through the connection and engagement of our guests. They work to develop our tribe and love to share these stories of connection and community. They bring the smiles.
Point of Difference also produces the Gay Ski Week Australia, which occurs every September.
Point of Contact (bear): Adam Bold Office Number: 1300 990 390 – Mobile Number: 0412 358 249-
Location: 780 Bourke Street (by appointment), Redfern, NSW, Australia, New South Wales
Website: https://pointsofdifference.com/ – Contact: askus@pointsofdifference.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PointsOfDifferenceEvents Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/podtevents/
Saunas:
Sauna X by 357
Sauna X is Australia’s most popular gay men’s sauna, providing a clean, safe, discreet and comfortable environment for gay, bisexual, and curious men to relax, explore, and connect at their own pace. Their welcoming venue attracts many locals and visitors from afar, offering key amenities designed to leave you feeling refreshed and energised.
Their recently renovated 4-level venue, located just off Taylor Square, is thoughtfully designed to provide a clean, safe, discreet and comfortable space for all. Enjoy their café, bar, and lounge – ideal places to unwind and chill out. You can also take advantage of their themed or private rooms and our wet areas, including an extensive spa, sauna, and spacious steam room. It is run and owned by bears, as they know what is best.
Whether you are a first-timer or a frequent visitor, their friendly staff are available to help ensure that your visit is as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.
Website: https://www.saunax.com.au/
The Sydney Sauna
Located right on Oxford Street, the Sydney Sauna (formerly Kingsteam) is a discreet and safe sex on premises venue with lube and rubbers aplenty and some extra amenities including a gym, snack bar, computer access and private rooms. Open 7 days a week, this one is for gay and bisexual men. The joint’s been going since the ’70s but has had extensive upgrades in recent years. There are two levels worth of saunas, cinema rooms, spas and themed rooms for all sorts of mischief-making.
Located: Level 1, 38/42 Oxford Street, Darlinghurst, New South Wales 2010
Contact Number: (02) 9360 3431
Website: https://www.sydneysauna.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sydneysauna/ Email: info@sydneysauna.com
Sexual Health Services:
ACON
ACON, or the ACON Health organisation, is a nonprofit health organisation based in Australia, primarily focused on promoting the health of people living with and affected by HIV, as well as the LGBTQ+ community more broadly. Founded in the early 1980s, ACON has grown to provide a wide range of services, including health promotion, support services, and community education.
Their initiatives include HIV prevention programs, mental health support, education on safe sex practices, and various community outreach efforts. ACON also engages in advocacy work to address issues relevant to the communities it serves, striving to improve the overall health and well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals. If you need specific details about their services, programs, or initiatives, let them know!
Website Link: https://www.acon.org.au/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aconhealth/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aconnsw/
Fitness/Activities:
Sydney Bear Walking Group
The Sydney Bear Walking Group is a social group that organises regular walking events aimed at promoting fitness and camaraderie among members of the bear community in Sydney. The “bear” community generally refers to a subculture within the LGBTQ+ spectrum, particularly among gay men, who embrace a more robust and hirsute appearance, celebrating body positivity and diversity. The walking group often meets in various scenic locations around Sydney and encourages participants of all fitness levels to join in. It provides a friendly and supportive environment for socialising, making new friends, and enjoying the outdoors. These walks are typically accompanied by post-walk gatherings where members can relax and enjoy each other’s company. Participation in the group is open to everyone, regardless of body type, and it’s a great opportunity for community building and promoting an active lifestyle. If you’re interested, check their social media pages or community boards for upcoming walks and events!
Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1549115475285654
Festivals:
Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras (SGLMG)
Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras (SGLMG) is an LGBTQIA+ not-for-profit member-based organisation that produces the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade and Festival and several other events and supportive initiatives throughout the year. SGLMG was built on the foundations laid by early community activists who fought for LGBTQIA+ rights in a time of widespread, institutionalised oppression and discrimination. Year-round, we also develop initiatives that celebrate our LGBTQIA+ identity, champion creative expression, challenge injustice, and elevate diverse voices. We proudly provide a platform for our communities to share with the world.
Mardi Gras occurs annually from mid-February and early March. – The Harbour City have a parade entry every year with Mardi Gras, so get in it!
Website: https://www.mardigras.org.au
